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With the release of The Sims: Hot Date, players could take their Sims downtown for exciting new interactions and romantic encounters. This expansion redefined how relationships were formed and nurtured within the game, requiring a bit more effort from players.
For those playing The Sims: Legacy Edition, many features from Hot Date are already integrated, such as relationship compatibility, a lifetime relationship meter, and, of course, the dating system. Navigating these elements can be quite tricky, especially compared to the more streamlined romance systems in later titles.
Understanding Relationships
Each Sim has two relationship indicators: a Daily Relationship bar and a Lifetime Relationship bar. Together, these bars determine the overall status of the relationship. In the Relationship panel, the smaller bar at the top represents the Daily Relationship while the larger bar below reflects the Lifetime Relationship.
Keep in mind that each Sim can view their relationship differently; one Sim might feel differently compared to how the other Sim perceives the relationship.
The Daily Relationship bar fluctuates frequently based on recent interactions, while the Lifetime Relationship builds more slowly over time. However, they remain interconnected—positive daily interactions can lead to a healthier lifetime bond.
Interactions in the same location gradually build the Lifetime Relationship, especially between Sims who live together. Also, creating opportunities for dating can significantly strengthen connections.
Building Romantic Relationships
Establishing romantic connections can be quite tricky in The Sims. Start by developing a friendly foundation with your target Sim. From there, you’ll need to progress to flirtatious interactions, such as a Flirt or Check Out move. To initiate a romantic relationship, two Sims must have a minimum of 70 points in their Daily Relationship bar. Successful flirting can lead to a Crush, signified by a pink heart icon.
To take it further, once a Sim has 70 points or more in their Lifetime Relationship bar, they can fall in love through further romantic interactions, such as a kiss, indicated by a red heart icon.
Ways to Strengthen Relationships
Hot Date introduced over 40 new social interactions, making relationship-building more interesting. However, you do need to unlock these interactions first.
Start by ensuring your Sim greets their potential date through the Greet interaction. After their introduction, monitor their relationship via the Relationship panel during Live Mode. Frequent social interactions, like chatting or joking, are essential for building rapport.
Building a solid Daily Relationship is crucial before pushing for romantic gestures. Establish a friendship first, then gradually introduce light flirting such as Backrub.
Spending time around Sims passively enhances relationships. This becomes particularly useful when managing multiple relationships at once. If your Sim is trying to connect with someone they don’t live with, be prepared to invite them over or take them out, as visiting others’ homes isn’t allowed in this version of the game.
Avoid repeating the same interaction too often, as doing so can annoy the other Sim and lead to rejection.
Do Relationships Fade Over Time?
Daily Relationships can change quickly. If two Sims don’t interact for a full day, they will begin to lose relationship points. The Lifetime Relationship can also decline but at a slower rate, illustrating the time investment needed to build lasting bonds. Even if Sims are in the same location yet ignore each other, the Daily Relationship will suffer while the Lifetime one may improve.
To quickly enhance relationships, ensure that Sims interact daily.
How to Invite Sims on Dates
If a Sim catches your interest, you can invite them downtown for a date. The downtown area was introduced in Hot Date, providing an ideal setting for Sims to enjoy various romantic activities, including dining out or shopping for gifts.
When your Sim returns home, the game time will revert to when they left, making it easier to manage jobs and dating.
To ask someone out, click on their icon and select “Invite Downtown.” If they agree, both Sims will gain relationship points, call a cab, and head off together. The option to invite will only appear after you’ve established a decent rapport, so take the time to get to know them a bit first. Sometimes, you may need to check the social menu several times for the option to show up.
Going downtown alone costs 50 Simoleons, but it’s free if you’re on a date. However, switching locations during the date will still incur a charge.
Sims can also ask out others they meet in Downtown. Start by greeting them, building rapport, and then look for the “Let’s Date?” option under the “Ask” menu.
If you’re inviting a roommate or family member, keep in mind you’ll only control the Sim who initiated the invite; the other one will act on their own.
While you can take dates to Old Town or even Vacation Island, Downtown is particularly well-suited for romantic outings due to its design.
Exploring Downtown
The Downtown area features nine different locations, such as beaches, parks, and shopping malls. Each spot offers various activities like dining or shopping.
It might be wise to have some extra Simoleons before heading Downtown, as even a simple ice cream can cost 20 Simoleons!
The Landgraab Mall serves as an excellent starting point for dates, with options for casual dining or shopping for gifts.
For those counting pennies, consider visiting SimCity Beach or Crumplebottom Memorial Park to enjoy nature together.
Keep in mind that saving isn’t possible while Downtown. Your household will save before leaving and when you return home, the game automatically saves again.
Shopping and Gifting
Many activities in Downtown involve shopping, where Sims can buy flowers, jewelry, toys, and more. The main goal is to present gifts to improve relationships. Simply select an item from a display to purchase, whether it’s red roses, diamond rings, or even copies of The Sims itself.
Once you have your gifts, click on your date and select “Give Gift.” A list will appear, showcasing items your Sim can gift. If your date enjoys the present, it can significantly boost your relationship.
Buying New Outfits
While in Downtown, your Sim can also shop for new outfits for themselves or their date, opening up opportunities to change styles not available otherwise.
If your Sim or their date is poorly dressed, purchasing a new outfit can help improve the situation. Alternatively, changing clothes in a tent is free.
Your Sim can purchase various types of outfits, such as:
- Formal Wear
- Winter Clothes
- Pajamas
- Lingerie
- Swimwear
The cost of clothing depends on the category.
Each clothing stall offers different types of outfits, so explore to see what suits your Sim’s style.
Dining Out
If you select a lot with a restaurant, such as Landgraab Mall or Solana Towne Center, your Sim and their date can enjoy a meal while indulging in conversation.
Find the restaurant’s podium to view the Order Food menu. Choose a meal and your Sim will be seated shortly. During the meal, both Sims will automatically chat and bond.
While they dine, new interaction options become available:
- Gossip
- Cuddle
- Admire
- Play Footsie
These interactions help build relationship points further during the meal.
Sometimes, Sims might encounter a glitch while seated where they can’t interact with their date. If this happens, have the Sim you control call for a taxi to leave the area.
Determining Compatibility Between Sims
Compatibility between Sims hinges on two main factors: astrology and shared interests.
Astrology Influence
The Sims harness astrology to assess compatibility. Each Sim has a star sign derived from their personality points, based on the 12 signs of Western astrology. For instance, one Sim could be a Gemini while another might be a Taurus.
You can check a Sim’s star sign by navigating to the Personality panel during Live Mode. Hovering over their sign will provide an overview of its traits and detail which signs may be a better match.
Whenever a Sim meets another, their star sign will be added to the Relationship tab, providing context for compatibility right from the start.
Interests and Their Role
Adult Sims exhibit varying interest levels across 15 different topics, with their interests randomly generated.
When Sims share common interests, they’re more likely to engage in meaningful conversations, leading to greater relationship points. To discover what another Sim is interested in, observe the icons that appear in their speech bubbles during conversation and check them against the Interests panel.
If you wish to alter your Sim’s interests, consider buying magazines Downtown, as each typically covers different topics. Reading these can help shift their interests.
